I often think about how much space we each take up in a room. Some people can be like sponges, expanding to fit the size, having the confidence to feel that they can take up that much presence, that they can speak and be listened to, that they hold some timber in their voice that makes people believe in their statements and follow their lead. I think of these people and note that I have never been one to feel I can expand like that, nor do I feel like I ever want to be like that.